A passage from Epictetus
Epictetus, Enchiridion 40
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Women from fourteen years old are flattered with the title of 'mistresses' by the men. Therefore, perceiving that they are regarded only as qualified to give the men pleasure, they begin to adorn themselves, and in that to place all their hopes. It is worthwhile, therefore, to fix our attention on making them sensible that they are valued for the appearance of decent, modest and discreet behaviour.
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